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Letting Go of All Or Nothing

Modified on Apr 7, 2025 by Julie Gaeta · This post may contain affiliate links or sponsored content · Leave a Comment

A puzzle piece labeled "mindset," sliding into place to complete a puzzle.

I talk a lot about mindsets because they have such an impact on our life.

It’s easy to get caught up in an all-or-nothing mindset — one of the endless traps of perfectionism. Whether we’re applying this to relationships, parenting, diet, or exercise, it’s easier to approach life with a more open-minded attitude.

When we view life in extremes, such as success or failure, never or always, right or wrong, we’re setting unrealistic standards — for ourselves and others.

Evaluating what could be better helps us learn — it’s a way to measure growth. But it’s also important to find and acknowledge the good.

No matter how much effort we put forth, nothing is perfect. When we can let go of all or nothing, it’s a freeing gift to ourselves and our loved ones.

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Julie Gaeta

Julie Gaeta is a plant-based recipe creator, certified Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, and mom of nine who's been plant-based for over 20 years. She's cooked approximately 4,382 pots of beans and can't vacation without her juicer and pasta pot. Her work has been featured in HuffPost, Yahoo, YourTango, and other major outlets. She helps others simplify wellness and feel good again through her blog, coaching, and weekly newsletter.

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Hi, I’m Julie—a Certified Holistic Health Coach (IIN) with advanced training in hormone health and a background in yoga and mind-body wellness.

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